Everyone has something.
You know that thing. That thing that you feel will never go away. Never be easy. Never be uncomplicated. Never be what you want it to be. Never be overcome.
I have a few somethings.
Some things I can’t figure out what to do about. Some things that baffle me. Some things that trip me up continually. Some things that I can’t figure out how to overcome.
Sometimes I feel like the somethings are not some things but rather my whole life.
Sometimes I feel like it is all one hopeless mess and there is simply no way to get on the other side.
And sometimes the other side scares me too. What if the other side is even more complicated and challenging? This side, albeit not always fun, is comfortable in a weird, familiar slightly twisted sort of way.
It sure is easy to get comfortable in uncomfortableness…why is that?
I’m not talking about content in my circumstances, I’m talking about comfortable in challenging, tempting, and maybe even sinful situations. It can feel like it is easier just to stay…easier to just hunker down in my unhealthiness. It’s hard to be strong.
Recently I found myself saying to a friend, “What does it mean to be strong in the Lord? What does that look like? What is my responsibility in that? Clearly I need to be doing something because nothing is happening right now that looks anything like me living in the strength of the Lord.”
That’s me being a bit of a petulant child and feeling a little hopeless.
That was Friday.
On Sunday, God answered me.
1 John 2:14 I write to you, fathers, because you know him who is from the beginning. I write to you, young men, because you are strong, and the word of God abides in you, and you have overcome the evil one.
I know that I am neither a father nor a young man, but I am a mother (who sometimes needs to be the father) and I am a relatively young woman (LOL!) so I’m thinking that God had John write that verse for such a time as this, for me.
It reminded me that there is strength in remembering what God has done for me. How He has stepped into my world in ways I couldn’t imagine. Even saying that He stepped in doesn’t do it justice, because that implies that He wasn’t there from the start. He has always been with me. But occasionally His presence is so real and comforting I’m in awe of His love for me.
Strength and comfort come from remembering…from thankfulness and praise for His faithfulness in the past and the understanding that that faithfulness never ends.
And then there are John’s comforting words to the young men (and women),
1. You are strong.
2. The word of God abides in you
3. You have overcome the evil one.
It seems the key to strength lies in His word. In continually abiding in it and it in you. There are a few verses in the Bible that are testimonies to this truth…that the Word of God is power and strength and hope. Things I really would like to have when dealing with some things…well, every thing.
John 8:31-32 If you abide in my word, you are truly my disciples, and you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.
2 Timothy 2:15 Do your best to present yourself to God as one approved, a worker who has no need to be ashamed, rightly handling the word of truth.
Psalm 119:11 I have stored up your word in my heart, that I might not sin against you.
Psalm 119: 28 My soul melts away for sorrow, strengthen me according to your word.
Psalm 119:92 If your law had not been my delight, I would have perished in my affliction.
Psalm 119:165 Great peace have those who love your law; nothing can make them stumble.
“Nothing can make them stumble.”
How lovely, comforting, strengthening.
There are other verses about peace that God brings me to a bunch…
Isaiah 26:3 You keep him in perfect peace whose mind is stayed on you, because he trusts in you. Trust in the LORD forever, for the LORD GOD is an everlasting rock.
I love those verses. How comforting it is to read the Word of God. To see the layers, the depth, the thoughtfulness of God in His word. To know that God loves me so much…that His mercy is beyond simply a judge offering mercy to an offender…it is the tender mercy of a Father offered to his child. A child who justly deserves no mercy, but receives it every time.
Every single time I come to God asking a questions…every single time…His answer is the gospel.
And every single time He uses His word to remind me.
I am strong.
I am strong because I have the Word of God and I have overcome evil because of Jesus…because of the Gospel.
(So this is the English teacher in me – but it is so cool!) That sentence in 1 John 2:14 is written in the perfect indicative which means that these things have already happened and that’s a fact. That there is assurance that these are not just things that could happen, but that they are facts, that they have already been accomplished.
So you and I are strong already.
The word of God abides in us already.
We have overcome the evil one already.
And not because of any great accomplishment or strength on our part, but because of the great accomplishment of Christ on the cross and because of the strength of the Lord in our lives.
Jesus is the Overcomer so that I can overcome.
John 16:33 I have said these things to you, that in me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation. But take heart, I have overcome the world.
There is the assurance of trouble BUT there is also the assurance of peace and overcoming. Yup. That’s pretty much what I need to hear… Trouble will come…don’t be surprised or disheartened by it. Instead, turn to Him who is your peace and be encouraged.
Be encouraged that no matter how crazy this world may be, He has got it.
Be encouraged that no matter how much you struggle and fail, He loves you and He’s got you.
Be encouraged that no matter how hopeless it might seem, He loves you and He’s got a plan.
Be encouraged that no matter how weak you feel, He can handle your life for you. He’s got your strength…it’s there for you.
Be encouraged dear one.
The God who offers his tender mercies to you, the God who calls you his precious child, the God who assures you that you are his treasured possession, bought at great price and dearly loved…this all powerful, all loving, all hope-filled, all merciful, all faithful, all everything God…this Father of ours…He loves you.
He loves you. You…in your messiness, your hopelessness, your weakness, your sinfulness, your doubt, your fear, your anxious thoughts… He loves you.
He. Loves. YOU.
He isn’t waiting for you to do some great, noble, brave task to earn his peace, or his strength, or his love. He just loves you.
1 John 3:1 See what kind of love the Father has given us, that we should be called children of God; and so we are.
1 John 3:10; 19 In this is love, not that we have loved God but that he loved us and sent his Son to be the propitiation for our sins…We love because he first loved us.
Psalm 103:8 The LORD is merciful and gracious, slow to anger and abounding in steadfast love.
I keep looking for ways to overcome, to change, to fix, to redo this life of mine. I keep looking for ways to be comforted, to be strengthened, to be assured…and I’ve very often not looked to the right place. God reminded me today.
This place in His word…this is the place I want to stay. This is the place where my strength is renewed and my hope is restored.